Tuesday, January 21, 2020

Midlife Madness Podcast Sneak Preview!

Hey friends! My sister and I have started a podcast called Midlife Madness! Here's our first episode. It has not been released yet, but it drops publicly on Monday, January 27. As a reader of my blog, I'd like to give you a preview! Let us know what you think! And stop by our Facebook page and give it a like so you can be a part of the community. You'll find us at www.facebook.com/midlifemadnesspodcast. I am really looking forward to this new adventure. Come along!

Thursday, December 5, 2019

A Christmas Present for YOU!

Merry Christmas! I love this time of year. What an amazing opportunity to celebrate the birth of our Savior, Jesus Christ. Some may not know who Jesus is, though. Some may not understand He is the Promised Messiah, born so that we might live! Prophets throughout the Old Testament foretold of His coming, giving hope and peace to those who were looking forward to Him and giving proof to those of us who would come after His appearance.

This year, as a gift to you, I wanted to share a list of 44 prophecies that Jesus Christ fulfilled. This is not an exhaustive list, of course, as He actually fulfilled over 300 prophecies given in the Old Testament. The chances of Him fulfilling even one or two as exact as He did would be slim. Actually, according to researchers, the odds of even just eight prophecies being fulfilled exactly as they happened have been shown to be similar to the odds of filling the state of Texas with silver dollars, about 2 feet tall and having a blind-folded person go in and pick out a single, pre-marked silver dollar correctly! But when God is the One giving the prophecy, He can fulfill each one exactly as He says. And He did!

"Glory to God in the highest, and on earth; peace and good will toward all men!" 

44 Prophecies Jesus Christ Fulfilled

1. Messiah would be born of a woman.
Genesis 3:15 - Prophecy
Matthew 1:20 - Fulfillment
Galatians 4:4 - Fulfillment

2. Messiah would be born in Bethlehem.
Micah 5:2 - Prophecy
Matthew 2:1 - Fulfillment
Luke 2:4-6 - Fulfillment

3. Messiah would be born of a virgin.
Isaiah 7:14 - Prophecy
Matthew 1:22-23 - Fulfillment
Luke 1:26-31 - Fulfillment

4. Messiah would come from the line of Abraham.
Genesis 12:3 - Prophecy
Genesis 22:18 - Prophecy
Matthew 1:1 - Fulfillment
Romans 9:5 - Fulfillment

5. Messiah would be a descendant of Isaac.
Genesis 17:19 - Prophecy
Genesis 21:12 - Prophecy
Luke 3:34 - Fulfillment

6. Messiah would be a descendant of Jacob.
Numbers 24:17 - Prophecy
Matthew 1:2 - Fulfillment

7. Messiah would come from the tribe of Judah.
Genesis 49:10 - Prophecy
Luke 3:33 - Fulfillment
Hebrews 7:14 - Fulfillment

8. Messiah would be heir to King David's throne.
2 Samuel 7:12-13 - Prophecy
Isaiah 9:7 - Prophecy
Luke 1:32-33 - Fulfillment
Romans 1:3 - Fulfillment

9. Messiah’s throne will be anointed and eternal.
Psalm 45:6-7 - Prophecy
Daniel 2:44 - Prophecy
Luke 1:33 - Fulfillment
Hebrews 1:8-12 - Fulfillment

10. Messiah would be called Immanuel (God with us).
Isaiah 7:14 - Prophecy
Matthew 1:23 - Fulfillment

11. Messiah would spend a season in Egypt.
Hosea 11:1 - Prophecy
Matthew 2:14-15 - Fulfillment

12. A massacre of children would happen at Messiah's birthplace.
Jeremiah 31:15 - Prophecy
Matthew 2:16-18 - Fulfillment

13. A messenger would prepare the way for Messiah
Isaiah 40:3-5 - Prophecy
Luke 3:3-6 - Fulfillment

14. Messiah would be rejected by his own people.
Psalm 69:8 - Prophecy
Isaiah 53:3 - Prophecy
John 1:11 - Fulfillment
John 7:5 - Fulfillment

15. Messiah would be a prophet.
Deuteronomy 18:15 - Prophecy
Acts 3:20-22 - Fulfillment

16. Messiah would be preceded by Elijah.
Malachi 4:5-6 - Prophecy
Matthew 11:13-14 - Fulfillment

17. Messiah would be declared the Son of God.
Psalm 2:7 - Prophecy
Matthew 3:16-17 - Fulfillment

18. Messiah would be called a Nazarene.
Isaiah 11:1 - Prophecy
Matthew 2:23 - Fulfillment

19. Messiah would bring light to Galilee.
Isaiah 9:1-2 - Prophecy
Matthew 4:13-16 - Fulfillment

20. Messiah would speak in parables.
Psalm 78:2-4 - Prophecy
Isaiah 6:9-10 - Prophecy
Matthew 13:10-15,34-35 - Fulfillment

21. Messiah would be sent to heal the brokenhearted.
Isaiah 61:1-2 - Prophecy
Luke 4:18-19 - Fulfillment

22. Messiah would be a priest after the order of Melchizedek.
Psalm 110:4 - Prophecy
Hebrews 5:5-6 - Fulfillment

23. Messiah would be called King.
Psalm 2:6 - Prophecy
Zechariah 9:9 - Prophecy
Matthew 27:37 - Fulfillment
Mark 11:7-11 - Fulfillment

24. Messiah would be praised by little children.
Psalm 8:2 - Prophecy
Matthew 21:16 - Fulfillment

25. Messiah would be betrayed.
Psalm 41:9 - Prophecy
Zechariah 11:12-13 - Prophecy
Luke 22:47-48 - Fulfillment
Matthew 26:14-16 - Fulfillment

26. Messiah’s price money would be used to buy a potter's field.
Zechariah 11:12-13 - Prophecy
Matthew 27:9-10 - Fulfillment

27. Messiah would be falsely accused.
Psalm 35:11 - Prophecy
Mark 14:57-58 - Fulfillment

28. Messiah would be silent before his accusers.
Isaiah 53:7 - Prophecy
Mark 15:4-5 - Fulfillment

29. Messiah would be spat upon and struck.
Isaiah 50:6 - Prophecy
Matthew 26:67 - Fulfillment

30. Messiah would be hated without cause.
Psalm 35:19 - Prophecy
Psalm 69:4 - Prophecy
John 15:24-25 - Fulfillment

31. Messiah would be crucified with criminals.
Isaiah 53:12 - Prophecy
Matthew 27:38 - Fulfillment 
Mark 15:27-28 - Fulfillment

32. Messiah would be given vinegar to drink.
Psalm 69:21 - Prophecy
Matthew 27:34 - Fulfillment
John 19:28-30 - Fulfillment

33. Messiah’s hands and feet would be pierced.
Psalm 22:16 - Prophecy
Zechariah 12:10 - Prophecy
John 20:25-27 - Fulfillment

34. Messiah would be mocked and ridiculed.
Psalm 22:7-8 - Prophecy
Luke 23:35 - Fulfillment

35. Soldiers would gamble for Messiah's garments.
Psalm 22:18 - Prophecy
Luke 23:34 - Fulfillment
Matthew 27:35-36 - Fulfillment

36. Messiah’s bones would not be broken.
Exodus 12:46 - Prophecy
Psalm 34:20 - Prophecy
John 19:33-36 - Fulfillment

37. Messiah would be forsaken by God.
Psalm 22:1 - Prophecy
Matthew 27:46 - Fulfillment

38. Messiah would pray for his enemies.
Psalm 109:4 - Prophecy
Luke 23:34 - Fulfillment

39. Soldiers would pierce Messiah's side.
Zechariah 12:10 - Prophecy
John 19:34 - Fulfillment

40. Messiah would be buried with the rich.
Isaiah 53:9 - Prophecy
Matthew 27:57-60 - Fulfillment

41. Messiah would resurrect from the dead.
Psalm 16:10 - Prophecy
Psalm 49:15 - Fulfillment
Matthew 28:2-7 - Fulfillment
Acts 2:22-32 - Fulfillment

42. Messiah would ascend to heaven.
Psalm 24:7-10 - Prophecy
Mark 16:19 - Fulfillment
Luke 24:51 - Fulfillment

43. Messiah would be seated at God's right hand.
Psalm 68:18 - Prophecy
Psalm 110:1 - Prophecy
Mark 16:19 - Fulfillment
Matthew 22:44 - Fulfillment

44. Messiah would be a sacrifice for sin.
Isaiah 53:5-12 - Prophecy
Romans 5:6-8 - Fulfillment

This Christmas, please consider the baby born in Bethlehem who spent His first night on earth in a manger. What if He truly was the Messiah? What if He truly did come to earth to live a sinless life and die a sinner's death so you and I can have an opportunity to have a restored relationship with God through His sacrifice? My friend, this could be the best Christmas you've ever had! I pray you will know Him this Christmas and that you will trust Him with your life. He loves you so much.

Knowing Jesus is a matter of reaching out to Him in faith. He is right here with you, in this moment. Speak to Him in prayer, from your heart. Here's an example of a prayer you can speak, but please know that your salvation does not come from a prayer - but from your heart. If you speak these words, but don't have conviction in your heart about what they are actually saying, it's just words. Your commitment comes from a true belief - a firm conviction, a full surrender. Your life will reflect that commitment! 

Father, thank you for sending Your Son to the earth as a humble servant and for living a sinless life. Thank you for dying for me and for the strength you showed as you hung on the cross - taking on my sin and shame. I admit that I am a sinner. The Bible tells us that all have sinned and fall short, and I am no exception. I admit that I have lived my life for me and for me alone. But I am tired of living my life for me. I want to live my life for You! I humbly ask you to forgive me for my sin and to take my life into your hands. I give you my heart. Please, give me Yours. Give me strength to live for You and help me to know when I am going my own way. I know You don't expect me to be perfect, but I also know You can give me strength to make the choices You want me to make by the power of your Spirit. I ask you to fill me with Your Spirit. I want to live for You alone and I trust You to help me do that. Thank you, Lord! You are so good to me. Merry Christmas.  In Jesus' Name, Amen

For more information or to speak to someone about who Jesus is and why knowing Him is so important, please visit www.needhim.org

Tuesday, August 27, 2019

Those Awkward Years (And How to Love Your Kids Through Them)

The highlight of my week in third grade was when Mom would drop me and my sister off at the local Roller Rink. Carpeted walls.  KC and the Sunshine Band playing "S-A-T-U-R-D-A-Y Night!".  The mirrored disco ball. The hokey pokey.  The dice game.  Couples only.  That funky smell of the spray they use in the roller skates to "disinfect" them.  

Yeah, it's still the same.  

If you don't believe me, go to the roller rink.  It will take you back. 

I have some good memories from third grade, but honestly, it was a tough year for me.  I was overweight, wore glasses, had no confidence, was totally insecure and nobody really liked me.  During "couples only" at the roller rink, I was always sitting and watching everyone else holding hands, slowly going round and round the rink, wishing I was out there skating with someone like everyone else, but no one ever asked me.  I wasn't exactly what you would call popular and I was socially awkward.

I think it started when we were sitting against the wall at gym class and we had to sit "Indian style" (it wasn't a politically incorrect thing to say back then - now we call it "criss cross applesauce").  I felt a bubble in my tummy and tried to straighten out my legs to keep it from escaping, but my teacher yelled at me and made me sit "Indian style" again.  Even before I could pull my legs back into that unforgiving position, my "tummy bubble" escaped and it thundered loudly against the wooden suspended floor in the gym.   Everyone looked at me "Ewww!!!  Gross!!"  





It was the end of my reputation, if I ever had one.  Oh, do I feel for kids in school!  One good thing about third grade for me was my friend, Jimmy.  He had a wooden leg.  I thought that was pretty cool but nobody else would talk to him. It's like they were afraid of him. I never understood that.  I would sit with Jimmy at recess on the bench and he would teach me math since he couldn't play on the playground equipment like everyone else.  I liked Jimmy a lot.  But I hated third grade. I hated math too, but that's another blog.

Did you ever have a year like that?  An awkward, socially destructive, frustratingly difficult year?  Oh, it's the worst.  The only thing worse is seeing your child live through a year like that.  If I didn't know those difficult days were what God used to build so much of who I am, I'd give anything so my kids would not have to go through it at all. But I know He taught me to become more compassionate, empathetic, humble and sensitive to others through those experiences. 

Romans 5:3-4 tells us, "We can rejoice, too, when we run into problems and trials, for we know that they help us develop endurance. And endurance develops strength of character, and character strengthens our confident hope of salvation." Your child's character is going to strengthen through their struggles. They will become more empathetic, more humble, more compassionate and a lot more sensitive to others who are struggling.

If "awkward years" describes your child, share your stories of your awkward years with them.  Make them laugh.  Listen.  Hug them a lot.  Encourage them. Teach them the truth about who they are, according to God's Word. Be patient. Trust God and try not to "fix" it (I know that's a hard one)!

And one more thing...

By all means, please...don't ever insist that they sit "criss cross applesauce" on the gym floor. (smile)

Wednesday, August 14, 2019

I'm in Good Hands

"It looks benign!

After about three weeks of doctor appointments, praying like crazy and wondering about the future, the heaviness that was pressing down on me dissipated in a moment. I was tempted to step on the scale because I felt I lost about 5,000 pounds! (smile)

A few weeks ago, I went in for a routine Calcium Score test for my heart. I had two friends have heart attacks this past year. Healthy, young and fit guys. So, it made me think that getting this calcium score would be a good idea. My results were great - my score was a 1 and that means I have little to no blockages - whew! 

But during the scan, they found a spot on my right lung.

My head was spinning.

After another chest CT scan, the radiologists recommended a biopsy. With the help of a dear friend, I was able to get in with an amazing doctor at Huntsman Cancer Hospital at University of Utah Medical Center within a few days. He looked at the scan and recommended a PET scan because the spot was so deep into the lung, that he was afraid a biopsy would collapse my lung. He told me it looked like it was either benign or a very treatable type of cancer, so he recommended I relax, go on my trip to Florida and enjoy myself. He said he would get me in for the PET scan the week after I returned. 

My PET scan was on Monday. My sister flew in to go with me and my husband came, as well. The test was over in a couple of hours. I knew it would be a hard time for me, so I asked people on Facebook if they needed prayer. During the test, they don't want you on your phone, you can't talk to anyone and they just want you to rest. So I prayed most of that time - thinking about each person who left a request on my Facebook wall. I can't tell you what a blessing it was to think of others during a time when my mind was tempted to overthink and worry about my own situation. I actually think back to that time and just feel in awe of the peace that I felt. I'm so thankful.

The doctor was kind enough to call me the very next day with my results. The phone rang at 5:05pm and he told me it looks benign and that he will have me come back in six months for a follow up scan and make sure it's not changing or growing. It could have been so much worse. My sister and I sobbed and held each other so tight! I was actually happier for her than I was even for me, honestly. The thought of losing my sister is way harder than the thought of going through something myself. She's my best friend in the whole world, and I am hers. I know she hadn't breathed deep in weeks - and now she was finally able to let it out! I'm so glad she was there when I got the news. And when I told my husband, I could hear the relief in his voice. He has had a hard three weeks, too. We all have - the whole family. But we always had peace that God had me in His hands.

I'm so much more empathetic to people who are going through this now, but some do not get the good news I received. I know the feeling of waiting, of wondering. But at this time, I can only imagine the horror of hearing the words "it's cancer". My heart breaks for my friends who are going through treatments, waiting on test results or watching someone they love go through it. This is hard, hard stuff. It's life at its roughest, no doubt about it.

I heard a teaching from Beth Moore once that never left me, and I'm hoping it won't leave you, either. It actually rescued me from thinking some pretty dark and scary thoughts over the past three weeks. She said that God is our deliverer. If we are at the doctor and we're told that we have a spot or a lump that looks suspicious, one of three things will happen:

1. You go in to get it checked out and the doctor cannot find it. It just goes away. Or it is benign. God delivers you from it. 

2. You go in and the doctor says it's cancer. You must go through treatments, possibly surgery, chemo or radiation. The road is long, but your Creator is right there with you. You finally get the all-clear and you are in remission. God delivers you through it. 

3. You go in and the doctor confirms it is cancer. After months or years of treatments, you cannot seem to get rid of it and you pass away and stand before your Creator. God has delivered you by it right into His loving arms! 

No matter what, He is your deliverer. Last I checked, the mortality rate for humans is 100%. But we can know beyond a shadow of a doubt that no matter what we go through, God will deliver us. After my three weeks of knowing something was there, but not knowing how serious it was, I can honestly say that God was (and is) my Deliverer. And He wants to be yours, too. 

Whatever you're going through, you can trust Him. He will not leave your side. He will be right there with you! He will deliver you - and He has a plan to bring you closer to Him than you could ever imagine - if you will just let Him. He can turn a dark time into a time of sweet intimacy with Him. It's truly miraculous!

Thank you SO much to those who knew and have been praying for me. I have felt those prayers! I'm so thankful that my doctor called with good news. But even if He hadn't, I promise you, I would still be in the best Hands ever. :)